James Barr and Dan Hudson

A Gay and A NonGay

Two unlikely friends take on the world
A Gay and A NonGay

Description

In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges many of our differences head on and promises that no matter who you are, or what you're into (Bruce Springsteen or Britney), love is love and gay and nongays can be friends.


An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Contact us on Twitter, IG or Facebook @gaynongay

Link: twitter.com/gaynongay

Episodes

Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church with Megan Phelps-Roper

Nov 14, 2019 33:13

Description:

The Westboro Baptist Church, notorious for picketing funerals and spreading homophobia, are one of the most hateful and homophobic Christian organisations in the world. Megan Phelps-Roper was born to hate, joining her family at an anti-Gay picket at just 5 years old. The pain, sadness and shame Megan and her family have caused LGBTQ+ people around the world is difficult to comprehend, but since leaving the church in 2012 Megan has dedicated her life to spreading love, compassion and understanding. In this episode, James and Dan chat to Megan about her journey. This episode contains strong language, offensive ideology and religious rhetoric you may find offensive.


Read #Unfollow, Megan's story about the rarest thing of all: a person changing their mind. It's a fascinating insight into a closed world of extreme belief, a biography of a complex family, and a hope-inspiring memoir of a young woman finding the courage to find compassion for others, as well as herself. Tap here https://www.quercusbooks.co.uk/titles/megan-phelps-roper/unfollow/9781787478008/


Come and see us live! We're playing at the Manchester Podcast Festival this Saturday with our special guest Stephen Bailey - go to gaynongay.com/live to buy final release tickets!


We're so proud of our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Recently the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Ellen loves Bush

Nov 8, 2019 14:32

Description:

Dan still hasn't watched #DragRaceUK and the boys discuss Ellen's friendship with George W. Bush 👀.


Plus if you want to see us live at a show we're playing at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to gaynongay.com/live to buy tickets!


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Recently the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop


Dan's mate's Dad wrote a Porno

Oct 30, 2019 12:34

Description:

The boys celebrate marriage equality in Northern Ireland and James goes to a fancy awards do where he unexpectedly learns all about Dan’s ‘weird’ life at university.


Plus if you want to see us live at a show we're playing at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to gaynongay.com/live to buy tickets!


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Recently the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

James' Foot

Oct 23, 2019 13:11

Description:

James can't walk, and the doctor thinks it's chlamydia. What?!


Plus if you want to see us live at a show we've just announced a date at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to gaynongay.com/live to buy tickets!


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' This week the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Live in London: Matthew Todd & ShayShay

Oct 17, 2019 40:54

Description:

Live from the London Podcast Festival, Dan and James return to the stage joined by Matthew Todd, author of Straight Jacket and Pride, and welcome their first ever drag queen ShayShay.


If you want to see us live at a show we've just announced a date at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to gaynongay.com/live to buy tickets!


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

An Outing

Oct 9, 2019 18:40

Description:

Dan and James take part in an accidental outing, and Dan has an unexpected incident with a dog.


Plus if you want to see us live at a show we've just announced a date at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to gaynongay.com/live to buy tickets!


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Live from Edinburgh: Larry Dean

Oct 2, 2019 49:57

Description:

It's our final show live from Edinburgh & today we're joined by Larry Dean! He tells us if he’s a postman or a postbox, deciphers Scottish slang and tells us about his show Fandan.


Plus if you want to see us live at a show we've just announced a date at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to gaynongay.com/live to buy tickets!


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Live from Edinburgh: Rhys Nicholson

Sep 25, 2019 42:07

Description:

Live from Edinburgh the boys chat to hilarious Australian comedian Rhys Nicholson and ask the all-important question - is it Home and Away or Gay? And does James actually like the look of dicks?


Plus if you want to see us live at a show we've just announced a date at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to gaynongay.com/live to buy tickets!


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Live from Edinburgh: Suzi Ruffell

Sep 18, 2019 46:26

Description:

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - Dan tells us about a rather sexy sounding exercise class he's been going to and we're joined by the incredible comedian Suzi Ruffell.


Plus if you want to see us live at a show we've just announced a date at the Dublin Podcast Festival and Manchester Podcast Festival in November - go to gaynongay.com/live to buy tickets!


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Live from Edinburgh: Jodie Mitchell & Tom Ballard

Sep 13, 2019 45:13

Description:

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we're joined by drag king extraordinaire Jodie Mitchell and Australian comedian and late night TV host Tom Ballard.


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop




Live in Edinburgh : Rosie Jones & No Country for Young Women

Sep 11, 2019 43:50

Description:

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we're joined by 'triple threat' comedian Rosie Jones talking about her identity as a gay disabled woman, and how she discovered her sexuality, as well as the stars of BBC Radio 1's No Country for Young Women podcast, Sadia Azmat and Monty Onanuga.


We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Live in Edinburgh : Sophie Duker & Jen Brister

Sep 4, 2019 39:23

Description:

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we've got some big dick energy in the house with our amazing guests - Sophie Duker and Jen Brister.


Plus we're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Live in Edinburgh : Richard Gadd & Christina Bianco

Aug 29, 2019 27:58

Description:

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 listen to our live recording with Richard Gadd and Christina Bianco. On today's episode James challenges impressionist diva Christina to make metal more ‘Gay friendly’ and the boys chat to comedian Richard Gadd about his latest show, the award-winning ‘Baby Reindeer.' Trigger warning - this episode does contain conversations about abuse.


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Live in Edinburgh : Jena Friedman

Aug 22, 2019 42:42

Description:

Live from the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness. Today we're joined by American political comedian Jena Friedman to talk democracy, the state of America, their fave bros Russia and smashing the trolls! Plus join James and Dan celebrating Slipknot's UK #1 album (let's face it - this is just Dan)


Join James and Dan plus special guests at the #EdFringe every night from 10.25pm, until August 25th 2019. Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now http://www.underbellyfestival.com/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-non-gay.


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Live in Edinburgh: Jack Rooke & BBC Radio 1's Unexpected Fluids

Aug 19, 2019 37:32

Description:

Surprise! We're live from the Edinburgh Fringe festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness every Monday and Wednesday. In our first recording, Dan's baked cakes 😱we invite gay comedian Jack Rooke on stage to chat about homophobia, plus the stars of BBC Radio 1's Unexpected Fluid's Alix Fox & Riyadh Khalaf talk sex and... spaff.


Join James and Dan plus special guests at the #EdinburghFringe every night from 10.25pm, until August 25th 2019. Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now http://www.underbellyfestival.com/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-non-gay.


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate


Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop

Ikea or Death!

Aug 14, 2019 9:42

Description:

Dan gets his tongue tied, and not just from kissing James! Plus we revisit a game from Dan's past.


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Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx

James 5

Aug 7, 2019 8:45

Description:

Ever dated anyone with your own name? Dan is fascinated to find out what James does with James, er 5?


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Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx

A Gay, A NonGay and A Mae

Jul 31, 2019 19:58

Description:

Live from our big London show at The Underbelly in June 2019 - hear our chat with the amazing Mae Martin at A Gay & A NonGay Live!


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Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx

Metro

Jul 24, 2019 13:33

Description:

Dan writes an article for a newspaper that has James 'double tapping' for days Read it here: https://tinyurl.com/NonGayAlly


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Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


Jamie Dornan and Macklemore

Jul 17, 2019 9:37

Description:

Dan is buzzing after James' DAD mistook him for Jamie Dornan. Will James accept this as proof that they look alike?


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Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

A Gay, A NonGay and a Pizza? 🍕

Jul 10, 2019 19:26

Description:

James and Dan are back from World Pride in New York. Did James finally submit to the lure of Scott's Pizza Tour? And is Dan a good ally? He doesn't think so.


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Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Pizza Pride 🍕🏳️‍🌈

Jun 26, 2019 13:50

Description:

James & Dan are off to #WorldPride in NYC - both want inches, but of a different kind! Happy Pride from A Gay and A NonGay!


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Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Phubbing

Jun 19, 2019 11:37

Description:

Is it okay for James to watch the RuPaul Final during our podcast recording? Are we allowed to be on our phones if we're hanging out with mates? Dan is triggered.


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

James' Big Weekend

Jun 13, 2019 20:17

Description:

The curse of James announcing he has a boyfriend on the podcast and then having to retract it a week later continues... 😞


We're playing Dublin (23rd) and Belfast (24th) this month too & return to the Edinburgh Fringe 2019 this August. Tap on gaynongay.com/live for info.


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

A Gay, A NonGay and A Grandaddy with Armistead Maupin

Jun 5, 2019 27:31

Description:

Happy Pride month! Iconic author Armistead Maupin joins James & Dan to chat about Tales of the City being turned into a Netflix Original in A Gay, A NonGay & A Grandaddy! The boys chat about our shared LGBTQ+ history, Trans rights, Stonewall 50 and err 'bumming'.


We kick off our first ever Pride Tour this weekend, see you this Saturday 8th June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at gaynongay.com/live We're playing Dublin (23rd) and Belfast (24th) this month too & return to the Edinburgh Fringe 2019 this August. Tap on gaynongay.com/live for info.


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

NO SPOILERS

May 29, 2019 13:29

Description:

Dan goes on a ridiculous rant, but NO SPOILERS.


Plus we want to see you next Saturday 8 June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at gaynongay.com/live


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


Get in touch us@gaynongay.com


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Guacamole

May 22, 2019 9:28

Description:

James has something to tell you... he’s guacamole. Plus we dive deep on iced coffee and the need to feel special.


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


Get in touch us@gaynongay.com


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)


Shawn Mendes

May 15, 2019 14:49

Description:

Should NonGay people have to come out too? Plus there's a huge announcement about our first ever UK Pride Tour! Tickets are on sale now at gaynongay.com/live 


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


Get in touch us@gaynongay.com


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Gay Relationships Are Hard

May 8, 2019 21:50

Description:

James thinks back to his childhood and the effect that's having on his... boyfriend! Plus our listener Nic is having a meltdown so the boys offer support and there's A LOT of admin. This episode contains themes of sex and child abuse.


Today's episode celebrates Digital Pride: the online movement, created by Gay Star News so you can take part in pride whoever and wherever you are. This year Digital Pride is tackling loneliness and isolation, find out more at gaystarnews.com


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


Get in touch us@gaynongay.com


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Hugs

May 1, 2019 12:44

Description:

Dan didn't make the rules but he's got some thoughts on man on man hugging. Plus who tf is Pete?


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com


Get in touch us@gaynongay.com


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary

Apr 24, 2019 33:33

Description:

We talk a lot about being Gay & NonGay, but today Caitlin joins us for another perspective in our special episode A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary. Host of BBC’s NB podcast, Caitlin joins us to help us understand what it means to be Non-Binary, how to be a better ally and how gender identity can be confusing no matter how you feel.


Listen to Caitlin & co-host Amrou’s NB podcast on BBC Sounds for more.


& A Non Binary is the second in our series learning more about other identities and sexualities. You can listen to our previous episode & A Trans.


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com


Mug someone off at our shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Consent

Apr 17, 2019 16:16

Description:

Dan's got a pitch for our big live show at Underbelly Festival... get ready for 'Play Your Gays Right'! Plus we talk consent in LGBTQ+ spaces and whether it's okay to 'mug someone off' if you've invited them back for sex?


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Dorchester

Apr 10, 2019 19:06

Description:

We catch up on the horrific change in law against LGBTQ+ people in Brunei and the subsequent protests going on at The Dorchester in London.


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Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Burnout

Apr 3, 2019 11:35

Description:

Dan and James feel like they're suffering from burnout but for different reasons.



Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com

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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Eau d'amour

Mar 27, 2019 12:57

Description:

Dan's discovered a new perfume that he thinks James might be into... 


Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com

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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Kebab Awards

Mar 19, 2019 11:39

Description:

There's a lot of confusion around room odorisers and Dan has finally convinced James to go to the British Kebab Awards! And a brand new NonGay Eye as Callum asks Dan's advice on how to come out.


For more advice on coming out listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and invite us to the Whale of the Year Awards at us@gaynongay.com

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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

0121

Mar 13, 2019 16:43

Description:

What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner "This One" on social media? We've a huge announcement about our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks and the latest on homophobic protests outside a school in Birmingham. Plus NonGay Eye's back and our listener Mason wants to know if he's missing out on the fun of his 20s whilst being in a gay relationship? 


We've taken loads of your wonderful messages to our favourite advice podcast! Listen to our brand new series with Radio 1's Life Hacks podcast via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0738blz


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop

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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Exclusively Gay

Mar 6, 2019 15:06

Description:

How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk and the boys discuss the UK Government’s new LGBT Education action plan

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We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop

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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Destroyers

Feb 27, 2019 11:04

Description:

Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme - the Cock Destroyers.


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We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

A Technicality

Feb 20, 2019 15:18

Description:

Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride's decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does "technically single" mean?


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We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Timothée Champagne

Feb 13, 2019 11:14

Description:

James has done the maths on how many guys he's slept with and so has his mum! Dan has no idea who Timothée Chalamet is and Talia needs to press 15s repeatedly.


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

NonGay Night Out

Feb 6, 2019 16:59

Description:

Dan has a big night out with his friends, and it's the most NonGay thing you've ever heard... or is it?


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Erased

Jan 30, 2019 30:09

Description:

James & Dan have a huge announcement, and with Boy Erased opening in cinemas in the UK soon the boys discuss gay conversion therapy with star and director Joel Edgerton.


We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.


Find out more about The Trevor Project's 50 Bills 50 States, or the podcast UnErased to understand more about conversion therapy in the US.

Check out The Rainbow Project in Northern Ireland, promoting the health and wellbeing of LGBT+ people and their families.


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Fabulous

Jan 23, 2019 12:09

Description:

Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic.


Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Tales from Miami

Jan 16, 2019 14:27

Description:

James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan with an upsetting story.


For support and information about HIV we recommend Terrence Higgins Trust in the UK and in the US Greater Than Aids.


Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Dan's Pants

Jan 9, 2019 21:47

Description:

Dan's world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon.


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

TwentyBiTeen

Jan 2, 2019 15:52

Description:

#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen!


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Best of 2018

Dec 27, 2018 41:43

Description:

Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes and some pretty shocking cow biology. Plus more serious stuff including an interview with the amazing Juno Dawson from our special episode A Gay and A NonGay and A Trans, and highlights from our 100th Episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival. 


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Santa

Dec 19, 2018 12:13

Description:

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we're delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his wishes for Christmas 2018.


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Fairytale of New York

Dec 12, 2018 18:27

Description:

You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****... is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-teen, implicitly homophobic? James & Dan have a new version, and the only thing offensive is their singing.


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

STI

Dec 5, 2018 15:07

Description:

Back together after the #RedRun, Dan shares his top tips on how to get over someone and is all this 'depression stuff' James talks about just 'podcast content'? Please remember to get regularly tested at your local sexual health clinic - find out more at ASHA or the NHS or your local clinic.


Plus we finally have MERCH! Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop!


This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

World Aids Day

Dec 1, 2018 31:09

Description:

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection.


Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it's like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They then travel to London's Noël Coward Theatre to meet with actor John Benjamin Hickey who is currently starring in the essential must watch play The Inheritance - that explores the generation after the peak of the AIDS crisis, plus journalist Matt Cain joins us to talk about the stigma of life on PrEP and his trip to Russia to investigate how homophobia fuels Russia's HIV epidemic.  


Please don't take anything said in this episode as medical advice or absolute fact. For more information about HIV/AIDS please talk to your doctor or we recommend these resources:


Terrence Higgins Trust

Greater Than Aids

I Want Prep Now


The Aids Memorial on instagram tells stories of love, loss and remembrance. 


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

World Aids Day 2018

Dec 1, 2018 31:04

Description:

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection.


Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it's like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They then travel to London's Noël Coward Theatre to meet with actor John Benjamin Hickey who is currently starring in the essential must watch play The Inheritance - that explores the generation after the peak of the AIDS crisis, plus journalist Matt Cain joins us to talk about the stigma of life on PrEP and his trip to Russia to investigate how homophobia fuels Russia's HIV epidemic.  


Please don't take anything said in this episode as medical advice or absolute fact. For more information about HIV/AIDS please talk to your doctor or we recommend these resources:


Terrence Higgins Trust

Greater Than Aids

I Want Prep Now


The Aids Memorial on instagram tells stories of love, loss and remembrance. 


❤️


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Wrestling

Nov 28, 2018 26:20

Description:

It's a tale of two nights out involving semi-clothed men when James & Dan have both have a very triggering experience in each other’s worlds. Is WWE and hitting people for 'entertainment' just another display of toxic masculinity? And is all male BOYLESQUE basically just porn? And if you want to impress Dan, don’t get your dick out. Order pizza. 25 of them.


Support the boys in this weekend's 10K #RedRun in aid of Positive East on Worlds Aids Day.


If you're in London, get tickets for Briefs Close Encounters at Christmas.


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Deep Feelings

Nov 21, 2018 16:48

Description:

How easy is it keeping your friends if you talk about them on your podcast, never mind any new love interest? TLDR - James is no longer dating.


Podcasters anonymous - tell us your woes: us@gaynongay.com


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Isolation

Nov 14, 2018 24:22

Description:

James shares some upsetting but unsurprising news from Stonewall on LGBT mental health in the UK but Dan’s friend seems a bit bored of us discussing James’ depression on the pod. There's also some admin and both A Gay and A NonGay clearly know absolutely nothing about vaginas. Read the full LGBT in Health Report online.


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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

PC 4 PC

Nov 7, 2018 21:54

Description:

We dive deep on the perils of Instagram and find that Dan doesn't even recognise his own humble brags. #Blessed

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A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

👻 Ghosting 👻

Oct 31, 2018 21:26

Description:

James wants you to know he is ok and discusses the stigma surrounding anti-depressants. We also talk ghosting, because it's Halloween and we love a tenuous link. How long can you be 'mugged off' before you've been ghosted and is ghosting the right thing to do if someone you don't fancy keeps getting in touch? Top tip : don't have a nap if someone is waiting on a reply.


Plus love and solidarity with all our LGBTQ+ Brazilian family.


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Exclusive

Oct 24, 2018 23:26

Description:

Trigger warning : this episode contains discussion of depression and suicide.


James is having a difficult time and Dan knows a weird amount of Meat Loaf lyrics . Plus how do you know when it’s time to go exclusive in a gay relationship.


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

First Boyfriend

Oct 17, 2018 23:00

Description:

James tells Dan about his first boyfriend and everything takes a turn for a conversation we thought was confined to Gay & NonGay fanfic.


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Paula

Oct 10, 2018 13:38

Description:

It's getting cold but Dan is here with 10 fantastic reasons why you should wear shorts all year round, plus memories of the Solihull Library and Arts Complex in 2003. What more could you want?


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Bert & Ernie

Oct 3, 2018 12:39

Description:

Dan reviews his queen of rock Avril Lavigne's new single at HIGH VOLUME, and there's a startling realisation about Dan & James similarity to Bert & Ernie.


Plus some important information on the Gender Reform Act - please find out more and submit to the consultation here: https://www.stonewall.org.uk/gender-recognition-act


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Pride & Prejudice

Sep 26, 2018 28:15

Description:

It's the end of Pride season in the UK and James has some upsetting thoughts. Plus Dan has a beard - does he need to keep it oiled?


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Come Together

Sep 19, 2018 16:37

Description:

Happy 101st! It's business as usual as James propositions Dan for some male bonding. 


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

100

Sep 13, 2018 40:03

Description:

It's episode 100 of A Gay & A Nongay! Can you believe? It's a long way from 'Hello' and NonHat wearers.


Listen to our centenary episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate 


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Banana 🍌

Sep 5, 2018 8:11

Description:

It's a short one this week as Dan and James get ready for their celebratory 100th episode!


Rule No. 1: Don't sexualise a banana 🍌


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


Come see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.


Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate 


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Gay on the Train

Aug 29, 2018 17:15

Description:

Dan gets chatted up on the train and won't stop bringing up YMCA while James can't stop laughing at Dan's recent foray into the world of lip-sync.


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


Come see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.


Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate 


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Gay for Pay

Aug 22, 2018 19:22

Description:

It’s official. Dan is ‘gay for pay’. Plus the boys are back from sell out shows at the Edinburgh Fringe festival where they discussed NonGay Jack Whitehall getting cast as Disney’s first openly gay character. Featuring a chat with out LA actor, star of brilliant ‘Tilda Swinton Answers an ad on Craigslist’ (see it in Edinburgh until August 26th) Tom Lenk (aka Andrew from Buffy) 


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


Come see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.


Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate 


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Number 10

Aug 15, 2018 22:04

Description:

We discuss James' recent DJ set at... 10 Downing Street. What should you do when politicians with questionable histories invite you round for tea? Read the UK LGBT Action Plan here.


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


Come see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018 or our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.


Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate 


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)

Taxi 4 James

Aug 8, 2018 14:28

Description:

Nothing makes James laugh harder than Dan's teenage band, and Dan has finally caught up with Queer Eye.


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This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.uk


Come see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018 or our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.


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Birds

Aug 1, 2018 18:07

Description:

Dan wants water, and knows an alarming amount about birds. Say hey to him if you see him at Brighton Pride this weekend, but James won't be there. Plus an announcement about our forthcoming 100th episode!


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Freaky Friday

Jul 25, 2018 19:49

Description:

Dan has “finished The Velvet Rage” and is now the expert on gay men.


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Mincing

Jul 18, 2018 16:50

Description:

Dan's back from celebrating his first ever Pride in Seattle! The boys discuss the anti-trans protesters at #PrideInLondon, and "what kind of fresh hell, is a lad?". 


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Save Dan

Jul 11, 2018 18:18

Description:

Is James 'hysterical'? Is Dan being bullied? #SaveDan. Plus James is done with f*ckboys and Dan's had a tweet about ice cubes.


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BREEDER

Jul 4, 2018 15:01

Description:

Dan has 'the gist' of Pride, and James needs to remember this weekend is not all about husband hunting. Plus a case of vocabulary when the nongay gets called an unexpected name.


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Russia

Jun 27, 2018 19:00

Description:

Would your family and friends be proud of you being LGBTQ+, even if it put themselves in danger? Should a gay person lie about their sexuality if they're in danger? James' brother is heading to Russia for the #WorldCup and it raises some questions...


Plus the boys are coming to Edinburgh Fringe and there's so much ADMIN (Dan needs a place to stay...)


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Pronouns

Jun 20, 2018 18:10

Description:

James and Dan explore whether to talk about pronouns in daily life, and Dan is inspired by the fab five to dish out some advice.

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Section 28 🤢

Jun 13, 2018 18:10

Description:

We forgot to wish Section 28 a happy birthday, oops! And why is everyone going on about Russia? Ugh.


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Thirsty

Jun 6, 2018 12:09

Description:

James & Dan go to a festival, but James is too thirsty for all this NonGay chatter.


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Shorts

May 30, 2018 11:56

Description:

Dan's love of shorts comes back to bite him (IN THE BUM)


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The Bum Sex Files

May 23, 2018 16:36

Description:

James has had 'hot sex with a hot guy' and wants to tell Dan all about it. Meanwhile, Dan has questions regarding a recent Amazon purchase.


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Officially Funny - our British Podcast Award winning entry

May 19, 2018 19:00

Description:

We just won the Bronze Award for BEST COMEDY at the British Podcast Awards and consider us weeping and screaming all at once! Bottoms, Santa, Avril and Bumming - we thought you might like to hear what makes us award winning :-) Thank you for being with us!


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Meringue

May 16, 2018 15:49

Description:

James wants to talk about gay dads leading Dan to somehow accidentally volunteer to become a co-parent with James.

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Berlin

May 9, 2018 13:42

Description:

Everyone gets a bit giddy when a trip to Berlin is mentioned. The least morning commute appropriate episode ever.


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Gay Bar

May 2, 2018 16:03

Description:

Dan finds himself uncomfortable on a night out, while James stresses about becoming a home owner.


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🐓 Blocker

Apr 25, 2018 13:13

Description:

It's finally time for James to apologise to Dan after he receives some listener feedback. Plus has Dan been deliberately 'cockblocking' James?


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Slow Cooker

Apr 18, 2018 15:49

Description:

Say what, we've been nominated for Best Comedy Podcast at The British Podcast Awards. Yay! James is "shook" and Dan has a problem with it. Plus the boys discuss Dan's new toy. Spoiler alert: it's a slow cooker. 


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Korn or Porn

Apr 11, 2018 12:50

Description:

Dan has prepared a special ROCK game for James to 'enjoy.' James makes a phone call and gets an unexpected answer.


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Bi Now, Bi Later

Apr 4, 2018 17:41

Description:

We’re chatting bisexuality, James has his first Patreon Boyfriend plus Dan’s explanation of inverted hatred in the metal community is alarmingly familiar


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A Gay, A NonGay & A Trans

Mar 28, 2018 1:11:06

Description:

"Transphobia is the forest fire that needs urgent attention “


To celebrate and commemorate International Transgender Day of Visibility we’ve recorded a special episode with amazing author of books like The Gender Games and This Book is Gay - Juno Dawson! James & Dan talk to Juno about the absolute STATE of the press witch hunt against trans people, how to be a good ALLY, Juno’s sex-life since transitioning and lots more.


For more resources and help we recommend reaching out to Mermaids in the UK and Trans Lifeline in North America.


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Ugly Cry 🎡

Mar 21, 2018 12:12

Description:

James & Dan both break their promises for lent. Yep. It’s sp*** and meltdowns all in one place after James is triggered by the incredible new movie Love Simon. And we're getting ready for next weeks special episode, ‘A Gay and A NonGay and A Trans.'


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Top and Tail

Mar 14, 2018 12:29

Description:

Dan and James plan their night sharing a bed together, while James is jealous that Dan's more popular on instagram than him.


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Lowkey Offended

Mar 7, 2018 14:16

Description:

A Gay and A Non Hat Wearer. ICYMI the boys reveal their sexuality. Why does James feel different after 2 months of taking PrEP? And Natalie Imbruglia has some surprising subliminal messaging in her songs.  


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You Mug!

Feb 28, 2018 16:03

Description:

The UK's LGBTQ+ homelessness crisis is top of mind after James hosts Student Pride and Dan's asked our voiceover lady to record some special 'NonGay' liners.


The Albert Kennedy Trust is a voluntary organisation based in England, created in 1989 to serve lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender young people who are homeless, living in a hostile environment or in housing crisis. Please visit them for more information.


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D before Date?

Feb 21, 2018 13:34

Description:

Dan has a novel take on what 'bumble' might be for and James suggests a new approach to dating, inspired by Love, Actually.


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Mummy and Daddy

Feb 14, 2018 16:10

Description:

Happy Valentines Day - a day when James wants to call Dan 'Daddy.' Plus A Gay & A NonGay brings you an unexpected biology lesson about cows. Soz.


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Orgy

Feb 7, 2018 13:42

Description:

Do nongays have as many orgies as gays? James is back on the dating apps and shows Dan how Grindr works. Plus the results from James' survey are in - Does Dan look like Jamie Dornan?


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Fifty Shades Of Narcissism

Jan 31, 2018 9:36

Description:

Dan thinks he looks like the HOTTEST MAN IN HOLLYWOOD. James does not agree.


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PREPisode

Jan 24, 2018 18:20

Description:

James & Dan chat safe sex . What is PREP? Can it protect you from HIV and does it make you... erm, fart?


Find out more about HIV and the need for better sex education in the UK at Terrence Higgins Trust, and in the US at Greater Than Aids.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

School

Jan 17, 2018 15:16

Description:

Dan wants to ‘smash James’s poppadoms’ with his masculinity and James drags up some of Dan’s old social posts to see if he’s worthy of their friendship.


We thought this was an interesting article about the difference between bullying and banter. Just to be totally clear though 'banter' is one of the worst words in the world used to excuse all types of horrific nonsense:


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

James 3, The Finale

Jan 10, 2018 13:23

Description:

James comes face to face with his gym crush.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

That Boy is a Bottom

Jan 3, 2018 17:25

Description:

James tests Dan on our sassy new jingles which leads to more BOTTOM ADMIN chat. Plus our listener Jacobi's sent us a special cookery book... New Year New Eww! Soz.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

A Teeny Weeny Little New Year Thank You

Dec 27, 2017 4:37

Description:

We just wanted to say thanks 💕


See you in 2018 for more meltdowns, wokeness, live shows and the return of James 3

Wonderful Christmastime

Dec 20, 2017 14:41

Description:

How difficult is it being gay at Christmas? Is it James’ new year resolution to find a boyfriend? Plus we invite Santa into the studio for his first LGBTQ+ interview.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

Insecure

Dec 13, 2017 10:59

Description:

Dan is insecure. Or is he very secure? Discuss.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

Cuddles

Dec 6, 2017 10:36

Description:

James thought it might be funny to do a 'would you rather' but, finds out from Dan that it's not.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

Irish Goodbyes

Nov 29, 2017 11:04

Description:

Turns out when you put things on the internet, people can hear them, as James found out this week from his ex.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

Rebound

Nov 22, 2017 10:13

Description:

Dan's in a mood and James is on the rebound.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

James 3, Part 2

Nov 15, 2017 9:02

Description:

James is back obsessing about a certain other James... and don't you dare phone Dan unless it's an emergency.


Plus... AUSTRALIA, we love you and are so happy about marriage equality!!!


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

Relationship Update

Nov 8, 2017 13:50

Description:

Oh dear. James has a relationship update

Don't call it a 'meltdown'


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

Bring Your Own...

Nov 1, 2017 18:24

Description:

James has a BOYFRIEND... but his BF has a 'thing' for Dan?? Meanwhile Dan wants to invite James to an exciting new cookery class but it's bring your own WHAT?!


Come and see us at Waterstones, Tottenham Court Road in London (sorry) on Thursday 9 Nov when we'll be in conversation with author Darryl W Bullock, whose latest book David Bowie Made Me Gay is the first book to cover the breadth of history of recorded music by and for the LGBT community. There will be cocktails!


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

#metoo

Oct 25, 2017 14:44

Description:

#metoo


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Come and see us at Waterstones, Tottenham Court Road in London (sorry) on Thursday 9 Nov when we'll be in conversation with author Darryl W Bullock, whose latest book David Bowie Made Me Gay is the first book to cover the breadth of history of recorded music by and for the LGBT community. There will be cocktails!


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

Bowie

Oct 18, 2017 10:39

Description:

Plans are afoot for the next live show, but there's just one problem - James can't pronounce 'David Bowie'


Come and see us at Waterstones, Tottenham Court Road in London (sorry) on Thursday 9 Nov when we'll be in conversation with author Darryl W Bullock, whose latest book David Bowie Made Me Gay is the first book to cover the breadth of history of recorded music by and for the LGBT community. There will be cocktails!


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

On Religion

Oct 11, 2017 20:28

Description:

James tackles our first complaint while getting a masterclass in the branches of religion from Dan. 


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Nudes

Oct 4, 2017 23:57

Description:

James reveals all about his relationship with 'Dan 3' and is already thinking about the wedding. Meanwhile the boys discuss unsolicited dick pics, selfie sticks and how to take the perfect photo of your bottom.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

LIVE @ London Podcast Festival

Sep 27, 2017 43:04

Description:

Yay! It’s A Gay & A NonGay LIVE at the London Podcast Festival. We’ve had so many lovely tweets asking for longer episodes so we hope this satisfies your THIRST.


James chats coming out, Dan finally reunites with his college band Taxi for Paul and we answer your gay questions!


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

Slagtag

Sep 20, 2017 7:05

Description:

How long do you have to hang around flirting with a guy after you realise he's straight? Plus Dan's giving up his favourite word for October.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.

Palm Springs

Sep 13, 2017 15:20

Description:

This episode is 'clothing optional'. James is back from L.A with a lot of tea to spill. The boys chat strip clubs, open relationships and why Dan takes so long to reply. Plus, how do you prepare for nongay sex?


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.


Cake

Sep 6, 2017 15:38

Description:

Gross Alert! We had to rename this episode from the original title James gave it. Let's just say Barr discusses lots to do with his online video collection.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.


Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay

Pastry Man

Aug 30, 2017 9:52

Description:

Today's lesson - don't ever offer Dan Hudson free food and then not give it him.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.


Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay

Breakup

Aug 23, 2017 13:05

Description:

James breaks up with the most important person in his life while Dan has trouble connecting with his emotions (but in a shock twist, not his bum.)


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.


Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay

Wikipedia

Aug 16, 2017 8:27

Description:

We're back! And someone has been tampering with James' wikipedia page.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.


Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay

Best Bits

Aug 9, 2017 24:44

Description:

We're on our holidays but in case you're new to the podcast, here's our best bits from the last year. Thanks for being a friend, we love you!


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.


Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay

Garden

Aug 2, 2017 12:31

Description:

Have you heard? Dan has a garden.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.


Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay


Pride Bandwagons

Jul 26, 2017 13:54

Description:

It's a No Meltdown special as we explore James' new lovebite as well as review how London Pride made us feel.

 

A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.


Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 16 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay


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Taxi for Paul

Jul 19, 2017 9:57

Description:

Plans for the next live show are afoot so to help James goes deep on the internet to discover Dan's past. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.
Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 16 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay

Lust for Love

Jul 12, 2017 11:06

Description:

James has a revelation about his approach to dating, and someone steals Dan’s toothbrush. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia

Pride

Jul 5, 2017 10:00

Description:

Thanks for Pride Month, USA... now it's our turn! London Pride is this weekend, but is Dan invited?
A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.

Jellyfish 🐟

Jun 28, 2017 13:24

Description:

Is Dan more or less 'homophobic' since hanging out with James? After a recent interview things are getting heated, and wet - bring a poncho. 
A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.

Bumming

Jun 21, 2017 7:51

Description:

Bumming? A word you can use in 2017 or not?
A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.

Between Stags

Jun 14, 2017 8:44

Description:

Dan is taking James out of his comfort zone, but first he's got a couple of stags to go to.
A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.
Come and see us live on 28th June in London - find all the details on our socials.

Bath Maths

Jun 7, 2017 14:09

Description:

... that moment you decide to triple check that your nongay friend is definitely 100% nongay! Can James' accountant friend break Dan's unwavering commitment to a heteronormative life style?
A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.
Come and see us live on 28th June in London - find all the details on our socials.



Nongay problems

May 31, 2017 8:38

Description:

It's time for Dan to let rip. He's a minority too guys, and he won't let James forget it. \ m /
A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.
Come and see us live on 28th June in London - find all the details on our socials.

BEARS

May 24, 2017 22:04

Description:

Does Dan know what a dark room is? Does James know what a clitoris is? The answer to both these questions is of course no.

SLUT

May 17, 2017 17:50

Description:

James is desperate to know if Dan thinks he's a 'slut' - but what does that actually mean? Plus the boys discuss the concept of 'expiry dating' and if James will be single forever.

JAMES 3

May 10, 2017 10:43

Description:

It's time for another meltdown - James fills us in on a mysterious guy from the gym... also called James.

POWER SNEEZE

May 3, 2017 11:00

Description:

Dan introduces James to the bizarre concept of 'power sneezing', and James discusses the issues surrounding airport douching.

COLIN STRIKES BACK

Apr 26, 2017 16:05

Description:

It's the podcast equivalent of a F.U.R.B answer back song - A Gay & A Non Gay with special guest star - COLIN.



Colin

Apr 19, 2017 15:08

Description:

A comprehensive BREAKDOWN of James' love life - or why giving 6/10 is not okay.

Baghdad

Apr 13, 2017 12:46

Description:

What's more of a struggle? The LGBTQ+ movement or liking alternative music? Plus we're nominated for an award, and we've already rehearsed our speech. Yay!

The 1.7 Percent

Apr 5, 2017 15:07

Description:

What does James do on a train when nobody's looking? And will he move to Paris? Plus the boys are accidentally going on holiday to New York together, but will Dan convince James to go 'off the beaten track?'

Victorian Porn

Mar 14, 2017 19:42

Description:

Has James had sex with a woman? Has Dan kissed a man? Plus uninsured pizza parties...

First Date

Feb 14, 2017 13:14

Description:

Dan and James investigate The 36 Questions That Lead To Love

An Investigation

Feb 1, 2017 10:43

Description:

James launches a special investigation into an invasion of his privacy. There's one suspect, you guessed it, Dan.

SPRINGSTEEN IS DADDY!

Dec 10, 2016 24:54

Description:

Nongay Dan decides if he's a top or bottom whilst James' intolerably single life goes from bad to worse ... also are dicks nice to look at?

Bromosexuality

Nov 1, 2016 28:29

Description:

James and Dan discover they're part of a new friendship trend. #RIPCrabs

HOUSEMATES

Sep 27, 2016 24:05

Description:

Dan and James talk housemates asking weird questions and deciding who to let in through the front door.

GOLDEN

Sep 12, 2016 21:11

Description:

Dan and James are back and they've become such good friends they've been on holiday together.

The Story So Far

Aug 17, 2016 24:03

Description:

James brings us an emo look back at his and Dan's special friendship so far. A Gay Non Gay returns soon.

WEDDING

May 10, 2016 15:41

Description:

Dan insists on further douche talk, James goes off on one about wedding lists and we discuss DIVORCE!

THRUPPLE

Apr 28, 2016 24:55

Description:

Dan is 'quite' emotional after a run. James is back from hanging out with star of Ru Paul's Drag Race ALASKA in NYC and there's THRUPPLE problems.

Manscaping

Apr 19, 2016 14:32

Description:

Dan & James dive into bush trimming and chat about all the men Dan's been having round

GAY QUESTIONS GAY ANSWERS

Mar 30, 2016 19:52

Description:

James is mad about not being offered coffee, and we're talking 'cleaning up' at other people's houses

Kebabs

Mar 21, 2016 9:06

Description:

James is upset that Twitter won't verify him, but Dan is more excited about his invite to the British Kebab Awards

Birthday

Feb 29, 2016 13:17

Description:

James forgets Dan’s birthday, we discuss open relationships, sausages and if your mum jokes are funny when you’re an adult.

Valentines

Feb 12, 2016 14:10

Description:

It's Valentines - James is three months clean of tinder and introduces Dan to new the new dating app 'Bro'.

Professional

Feb 8, 2016 9:35

Description:

AGAANG is back and James and Dan have decided to 'go professional' while discussing their love for Oasis and The Corrs.

The Christmas 'Special'

Dec 23, 2015 17:01

Description:

Dan and James get together for one last time in 2015 to talk weddings, beer and Christmas. It's a Christmas Special y'all!

Rude Questions

Dec 2, 2015 11:52

Description:

James gets asked an awkward question and then puts Dan on the spot.

Chickens

Nov 17, 2015 12:28

Description:

One word... Chickens.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.

Showers

Nov 10, 2015 8:40

Description:

James finally puts Dan in his phone but then learns something gross about his hygiene.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.

James2

Nov 3, 2015 7:08

Description:

James is affronted when he finds out that he is referred to as 'James 2' in Dan's life.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.

Lads

Oct 20, 2015 8:23

Description:

James questions Dan's hatred of being tagged a lad, and Dan learns what 'On Fleek' means.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.

Hello

Oct 13, 2015 10:02

Description:

The very first episode of A Gay & A NonGay.


James & Dan's mutual friend, Dan's girlfriend has gone away for a month and left them both at a loose end... There is no way these two men would hang out of their own accord but here's what happens when they have to.


A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.